This Year, I Choose Christmas

Christmas is problematic - we can start there. I usually have mixed feelings about the forced cheer, the empty traditions, the consumerism. My partner's helped me feel better about the whole thing with an approach that focuses on family, feasting, and the rhythm of the seasons. Parenting has helped even more, because my kid feels the magic. This year, though... All the things that Christmas is supposed to be: joyful, bright, warm - I really need that shit. 

So I'm choosing Christmas. Not necessarily birth-of-Jesus Christmas (tho Jesus Was Way Cool) and definitely not drive-the-economy Christmas. 

I'm choosing Trailer Park Boys Christmas, about getting drunk and stoned with our friends. 

I'm choosing Christmas In Hollis Christmas, about brightening our surroundings with intention. 

I'm choosing Ugly Sweater Christmas, about color and humor and taking a break from our routine. 

 I'm choosing Nana's Crumbly Cookies Christmas, about treats that carry stories and love from our ancestors. 

And I'm choosing two new favorite Christmas jams! First, from the spectacular Muppets Christmas Carol, this really lovely song from the Ghost of Christmas Present. It's about making our own Christmas and the magic in simple joys. My kiddo sang this at her school concert this year, and it was just what I needed. 



Also, from the perfectly-spirited Linda Lindas, a brand new pop-punk jam that I found instantly lovable. 




Honestly, I hope all y'all are able to find a little warmth, spirit, light, and color in your season this year. I'd love to hear about your non-traditional tradition, or fun anti-Christmas take that makes you enjoy the season in your own way!

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